Thursday, January 1, 2009
year 2008 had ended. what a year. and I would like to start off with year 2009 talking about my dad. I shall start off by telling you how much I disliked him. Or maybe, I should say, how much I hated him. Well, basically just lotsa of misunderstandings & miscommunication. And I felt that he was totally unreasonable, demanding & ridiculously irresponsible. We bickered very often. And we simply can't meet eye to eye with each other. So, most of the time, we rather not talk.But I guess our relationship gradually improved in year 2008. I felt awfully touched and moved by a few things that he did. 1) he never fails to bring the family out for dinner despite all the inconveniences of fetching and picking us up from different venues. he's the family driver. HAHA. =)2) he will always be there to give me a massage when I had a sprained ankle/neck/back. and it's really very good. =)3) he will stay at home on a sunny weekend so that our washed(wet) clothes can get to be dried asap. (he usually had lotsa events and plans, but turned them down for the clothes. HAHA.) 4) he is also the one who catches the lizards in my room, and the beetles. (i'm not afraid of beetles, my brother is.)5) he will never fail to read my blog everyday. (i found out recently.) and though he reads, he don't judge or even points finger at my thoughts and actions which might not be totally decent. And while my mom is working hard outside, my dad will be the homemaker. this year, I begin to see how noble and sacrificial he is. I begin to love and respect him more. this is a picture of him! 
Alright. This first post shall be dedicated to my dad. =)
to shannon : haha. I didn't force you, like literally force alright. but I wrote my first post of 2009 instead of the last post of 2008. HAH. to yijun : CHUA YONEX! you know what you didn't do. and you know you're so DEAD!
I know you'll be reading this. just wanna thank you for all that you've done. all the little little things, are so wonderful. and though many times, we argued, I guess somehow we realised how much more we need each other in our lives. sorry for the times when I was a bad kid. and I love you. I know I haven't said enough of that. but you know I truly do.
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